Depressed about dating prospects
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After I relocated to my current residence, I joined a dating site, but I am very disappointed with my prospects.
More than 80% of people who seek treatment get relief from symptoms, according to Mental Health America.
If you are experiencing the same issues, how do you deal with being alone? Focus on developing more of a support system outside work. Find out if your city has mixer events for single professionals. Because while a psychologist can keep on asking questions: “How does that make you feel? We’ve been talking for 11 weeks now, and I am astounded at how far she’s come. But since she does have high standards, only 10% of men will be eligible. It just means that due to her smaller dating pool, it will take her more time than it takes other women. It’s no different than being a shrink perhaps, but one of my clients, who IS a shrink, thinks I’ve got the tougher job. Working with her has been a pure joy for me, as I am witness to her spectacular growth on a week-by-week basis. If she didn’t have such high standards, she might be satisfied by the cute, boring guys she just passed up.You might be second-guessing yourself, feeling bad about yourself, having trouble concentrating at work, and can't sleep or eat normally.
My first suggestion is to definitely seek professional help if it feels unmanageable -- most people who get help find relief from their symptoms.
Suddenly, as frustrating as it seems, my client has a paradigm – a framework of what to expect out of dating. So if you’re going to date online and think that you’re going to find true love in your first 30 day trial, think again. And coming to the conclusion after a bunch of frustrating dates that you should give up entirely is simply false. Your dream partner may be going through a divorce right now. You bother because the only way to find love is to go on dates with strangers. For my client, her big takeaway was that she needs to stop measuring results the way she measures results at school or work.